• Dragon Ball Z:
  • During his brutal beatdown of Vegeta, Frieza lectures him on being an Ungrateful Bastard and betraying him despite showing him "favoritism". Frieza is an utterly sadistic, Ax-Crazy Jerkass who kills whoever and whenever he wants For the Evulz, and his idea of "favoritism" was making Vegeta one of the three Saiyans he didn't kill.
  • After Dende heals him as part of his Deliberate Injury Gambit during the fight with Frieza, the first thing Vegeta does afterwards is kick Dende aside and angrily tell him to be grateful he didn't decide to kill him. This is despite the fact that, as Dende himself pointed out beforehand, Vegeta was just as evil and cruel as Frieza and had personally killed numerous innocent Namekians, and Dende had no reason whatsoever to help him (aside from the hope that he would fight Frieza and leave Dende alone).
  • Vegeta gets another moment during the Buu Saga. Before his Heroic Sacrifice, he asks Piccolo if he'll be able to see Goku in the Other World. Piccolo tells him point-blank that Vegeta is most likely going to Hell because, unlike Goku, he has spent his entire life being a selfish, evil bastard and one selfless act is not enough to make up for his sins. Nonetheless, Vegeta accepts that and goes through with it.
• In Kaguya-sama: Love Is War, Ishigami is shown to consistently stand up for and protect Iino without her knowledge, a seemingly selfless and kind behavior. However, deep down he wants a girl to fall for him for being a kind person and plans to reveal all of his past actions at some point so Iino will have no choice but to date him. The manga casts this as an unhealthy attitude but more a sign that he's flawed and immature rather than a bad person.
• The Legend of Zelda (Akira Himekawa): In the adaptation of The Minish Cap, when Link shouts at Vaati for turning the Great Mayfly Fairy into an insect monster, the wizard just says that he wasn't killing her.
• In Red River (1995), Ramses abducts Yuri and then tells her off for screaming and trying to escape. He tells her that she isn't very grateful for how "nice" he's being, whereupon Yuri asks why the hell she should appreciate his kidnapping her as "nice". His response? He wasn't raping her while kidnapping her, was he?
• The Rising of the Shield Hero: The very moment the Four Cardinal Heroes are summoned to Melromarc and are told they must save it from the Waves of Catastrophe, all of them except Naofumi immediately began demanding rewards and respect, threatening that if they didn't get that, they'd go from allies to enemies. Naofumi's creeped out by how smug they were being at the time. At the same time, despite the fact that Naofumi is being absolutely cordial and not trying to start anything, the King doesn't even bother to give him a chance to say his name when he asked all of the Heroes to tell them aloud.
• Yu-Gi-Oh!: During the Battle City tournament, Joey is in danger from Marik, the arc villain. Kaiba finds him using technology and expects thanks from Yugi for his help. There's only one issue with this — Kaiba is the overseer of the tournament, and therefore responsible for the safety of every contestant, so he should have wanted to find Joey anyway regardless of his dislike for him.

• One segment from Chris Rock's "Black People vs. Niggas" routine, which revolves around the idea that "everything white people don't like about black people, black people really don't like about black people" that would make an excellent page quote if not for the, ahem... controversial language;
  Chris: You know the worst thing about niggas? Niggas always want credit for some shit they supposed to do. A nigga will brag about some shit a normal man just does. A nigga will say some shit like, "I take care of my kids." You're supposed to, you dumb motherfucker! What kind of ignorant shit is that? "I ain't never been to jail!" Whatchu want, a cookie?! You're not supposed to go to jail, you low-expectations-having motherfucker!
• Old one-liner: Nobody ever compliments me for the times I wasn't a cannibal.
• Similarly, "I only threatened to kill everyone Once. You should be thanking me."
• George Carlin has a lengthy routine about the "Self Esteem Movement" in his final comedy special, It's Bad For Ya, saying not allowing a child to simply fail or be bad at something will ultimately leave them unprepared for adulthood, where they'll still expect to be rewarded simply for showing up.
  George: And Bobby's parents can't seem to understand why he can't hold a job. In school, he was always on the honor roll. Of course, they don't realize that, to be on the honor roll, you have to maintain a body temperature somewhere roughly in the nineties.
• Old Soviet joke: Once Vladimir Ilyich is sitting on a bench, sharpening a razor. And a little girl sits on a bench nearby. Vladimir Ilyich looks at her affectionately and sharpens again, looks, and sharpens... but he could have slashed her neck! (Thanks to this joke, "But he could have slashed!" became a very popular expression of this trope.)

• Zoe Zimmer from Ms. Marvel (2014) is just concerned about the well-being and financial status of her classmates. She is even willing to shop where one of them works, and can't fathom why he wouldn't make coffee for her for this great act of charity. The others are divided whether or not her "concern trolling" is an act or cluelessness. Exposure to Truth Serum reveals that she is genuinely mean. Surprisingly enough, Zoe does go through a large amount of Character Development to make her a sincerely nicer person. The fact that it was revealed that she is a lesbian contributed to it as she became a more empathetic person and much nicer.
• The Powerpuff Girls: In the story "Everything Must Go" (DC Comics #48), Mojo Jojo conducts a yard sale of his destructive wares. The Amoeba Boys buy one of his items — a magnet that pulls the Moon toward the Earth on a collision course. When he intervenes and stops the machine, sending the Moon back to its rightful place, he thinks he deserves a "thank you" from the girls. They lock him up in jail for starting the whole thing with his yard sale to begin with.
• In Red Robin, Damian complains that Tim and Dick, though mostly Tim, don't give him enough credit and trust for turning on his training and upbringing by the League of Assassins as a Tyke-Bomb, joining his father's crusade, and working hard to curb his more murderous impulses, despite the fact that he hasn't stopped sabotaging Tim's equipment in ways that could kill him.
• One issue of Tarot: Witch of the Black Rose sees Jon ascending towards Heaven and assuming that he must have earned it because he brushed his teeth a few times.
• In The Transformers: More than Meets the Eye, this is actually inverted. Rodimus invents a morale booster called the Rodimus Star and gives it out for the most trivial things. Ultra Magnus, who is always a good person, gets one for "best handwriting" while Megatron gets one for "not reverting to his evil ways". Whirl gets one for some unknown reason, and this was before his Hidden Depths began to be plumbed, and Rodimus even offers one to Swerve if he can keep from speaking for one day (which Swerve fails).
• In Ultimate Spider-Man (2000), the Kingpin explains to Peter that normal people resent superheroes like Peter in the Marvel Universe (or at least Ultimate, though the main one could qualify to a lesser extent) because — according to the Kingpin — they are sheep who just want to do the bare minimum of what is expected of them and want someone like the Kingpin to give them a big cookie for it at the end of the day. Seeing heroes like Peter going above and beyond makes them realize that they don't really deserve that cookie.
• Wonder Woman (1987) & Wonder Woman (2006): Hercules seems to think he deserves to be forgiven and liked by the Amazons because he spent time imprisoned for taking over their country and turning them into sex slaves. It's a major sticking point to him that the women whose rapes he condoned and conducted don't think he's a hero, since he feels they're being petty and ridiculous. Though some of them have forgiven him, Hercules is pissed they don't trust and revere him.

• One Baby Blues strip features Zoe excitedly telling her mom that she just saw her brother Hammie bend over in front of her, and didn't kick him! The last panel has her complaining about how hard it is to get brownie points.
• In Calvin and Hobbes, Calvin argues that since he's such a little hellion that being nice is difficult for him, any good deed he does should be worth five good deeds of some kid who wants to be good in terms of Christmas presents. Hobbes points out that the question of his good deeds is purely theoretical anyway, but Calvin insists that not putting a rock inside that last snowball was already something. Of course, this is Calvin we're talking about — he's also stated that he's done his part in the world just by being born and thinks everyone else ungrateful for not thanking him for it.
• For Better or for Worse: John flies into rage and spanks Michael for not agreeing that he, as the child, owes his parents for feeding, clothing, and housing him. Elly's objection is not that Michael doesn't owe his parents every single cent spent on him with interest rates that would make a Mafia loan shark sick, but that he lost his temper.
• The title character of Luann once made a big deal about the Christmas gifts she was giving her friends Bernice and Delta. Bernice's gift was a giant empty cardboard box, which Luann called a "Big Box of 'Sorry'", as in Luann was apologizing for how self-centered she had acted in the past. Delta's gift turned out to be... Delta's sweater, which Luann had borrowed and never returned. Bernice and Delta were less than impressed, and Luann was dumbfounded as to why her friends weren't more grateful for these thoughtful Christmas presents.
• Rat from Pearls Before Swine thinks he's going to Heaven because he once opened the door for a fat guy — though he did let the door close on him for walking too slow.

Crossovers

• Alpha and Omega: When EDEN is lambasting her for how poorly she treated Young Shinji, Misato attempts to defend herself by pointing out that she never detonated their Explosive Leash. Or rather, that she "couldn't bring herself" to detonate the choker. Not that she never considered it, but that she never followed through. Suffice to say, EDEN is unimpressed, and almost lops off Misato's head with an omniblade.
• Iron Hearts: After stealing the Elements of Harmony, Serith thinks that returning what he stole will win Princess Celestia over from sheer gratitude.
• A Man of Iron: Sandor Clegane takes pride in the fact that he has never raped any women. This is used more as a commentary on just how much of a Crapsack World Westeros is. As Tony notes:
  Tony: Did you realize just how many rapists are between here and the Trident? I mean, just... I knew there were rapists in the Seven Kingdoms, but it was like I couldn't fly for 3 minutes without having to save some milkmaid.
• The Owl and The Frog: Sasha's father not only neglects her after divorcing her mother, he starts dating a younger woman who happens to have children of her own, expecting them to show more appreciation for him acting like a father.
• Used humorously in the Buffy the Vampire Slayer/Conan the Barbarian crossover Revenge of the Red Witch. Conan reassures Willow that she's safe with him, because it is not the way of a true Cimmerian to force himself on an unwilling woman. That is noteworthy in the grim and savage Hyborean Age, but Willow is understandably less than comforted.
  Willow: Wow. Uh, you're actually boasting that your particular culture has a rape taboo as if it's something special here? That makes you different from other people? What the frilly heck kind of place is this?
• In Special, Satana's parents never wanted her, but were forced to adopt her, as they were the only Latino couple available. They never show any care, compassion or sympathy for her, and are honestly surprised that other adoptive parents got attached to their kids. They also intend to kick her out of their house the moment she turns eighteen, yet expect her to be grateful that they've always provided food and shelter for as long as they were legally obligated to.
• In The Turn, Nosedive’s Yeerk tries to argue that he’s being ‘good’ to Nosedive as he’s basically keeping up with Nosedive’s usual social activities, ranging from volunteering at an animal shelter to visiting the comic book store. Nosedive not only protests that the Yeerk is missing the point, but also points out how other Yeerks aren’t that “benevolent” by drawing the Yeerk’s attention to his previous host, Jason; Jason was a voluntary Controller while Nosedive’s Yeerk was in him, but Jason’s new Yeerk is far more dismissive towards his host, such as not bothering to take care of Jason’s pet snake.
• The Warcrafter: When informed that Jack Slash has finally been killed, Bonesaw asks if they want a cookie for doing something that should have been done ages ago. It's clear that this is mostly her own bitterness talking.

Avatar: The Last Airbender

• In The Stalking Zuko Series, after Katara vigorously argues in favor of women's rights at a dinner for the Southern Water Tribe, her father Hakoda comes up to her and has a talk with her about it. He says that he's confused as to where Katara's desire to be equal to the men came from, and says that he's a good parent because, among other things, he doesn't beat his wife or children and tried to treat her as an equal. Katara is not pleased when she hears that.
  Katara: Oh, so you never smacked me and Sokka about, you listened to me sometimes, and you gave me an even break – That is how it should be, dad!
• Strings (Lantur): Tarrlok is frustrated over Korra being a Defiant Captive, even after he forces her to marry him and put on a Happy Marriage Charade. He repeatedly tries to convince her that she should be grateful that he isn't treating her much worse. At one point, he uses his bloodbending to imply that he could use that to rape her whenever he wishes... in order to claim that she should be happy he doesn't do that.

Ben 10

• Attea in My trophy, my emperor, my husband forces Ben to marry her in exchange for leaving the Earth alone. However, with her mutated To'kustars, Attea could have easily enslaved the planet and taken Ben by force, so she feels Ben should be grateful that she honored the ultimatum instead of doing that.

Buffyverse

• In Stronger Together, Buffy is again faced with Spike's attempts to argue that he is changing because he lured her into a trap set by Darla and is now trying to save Buffy without asking her to admit how she feels about him. As Buffy points out, he still created this situation in the first place, and he doesn't get points for acting as though he isn't asking for points.

Death Note

• I Won't Say: Light feels that L should reciprocate his interest in him simply because Light genuinely doesn't want to hurt him. At one point, Light has him pinned down in bed, feeling him up, but stops upon realizing just how terrified L is... and proceeds to complain that he doesn't understand why L refuses to give him a chance when he's being so nice and "respecting his boundaries".
• In Lab Specimen, L thinks Light should be grateful to him despite L's invasive and dehumanizing treatment of him and sexually assaulting him because at least L wasn't torturing him.
• In To Feel Alive, Ryuk is quite put out when Light doesn't seem too thrilled when Ryuk makes the promise that his death would be quick and painless:
  Shouldn't he be grateful that he wasn't planning on giving him a painful, lingering death?

Harry Potter

• Eden, by Obsessmuch: At one point, Lucius stabs Hermione in the shoulder, then heals the wound and suggests she should be grateful for that, ignoring the fact that he was the one who injured her in the first place.
• In Wish Carefully, Lucius Malfoy thinks the eight foreign witches he and a Cabal of other high-ranking Death Eaters kidnapped from their homes to be Breeding Slaves should be grateful because they were "rescued" from their previous impoverished backgrounds, get to live in luxurious mansions with their every whim catered, and they aren't being regularly abused (sexually or otherwise).

Heathers

• So I Can See My Baby When I Leave This World: Kurt and Ram drug Veronica, then strip her naked and take pictures. When JD confronts them over this, they confess to everything they did, insisting that was all they did, really! JD sarcastically compliments them on their "restraint".

Maleficent

• In Your Servant, Mistress this trope is averted and discussed: Maleficent repeatedly congratulates Diaval on being a decent human being, and he's surprised that she thinks whatever he's done, or not done, noteworthy, assuming that everyone would act like this. He complains that she has really low standards at one point.

Miraculous Ladybug

• Chloe's Lament: Chloé never questioned the party that her classmates threw for her in "Malediktator", believing that it was the least they could do after she'd saved the city from her akumatized father...even though that only happened due to her throwing a temper tantrum. She's sincerely shocked to learn from Adrien that said party started as people celebrating that she was planning to leave Paris.
• The Cosmos: One of the ways Sabine hurt her daughter was by making her feel that seeking any kind of recognition for her accomplishments was actually never worth any kind of special acknowledgement — anything and everything she achieved was just "as it should be". As a result, Marinette struggles to see the value of anything she does, convinced that she's not worth anything if she's not being 'perfect'.
• The Karma of Lies: After Miracle Queen, Chloé never bullied anyone or made Sabrina do her homework, hoping it'd be enough for Ladybug to make her Queen Bee again. Ladybug points out "Not being a bully is just basic decency". In contrast to how her canon self behaves, Chloé takes this to heart and continues being The Atoner.
• Scarlet Lady: After Adrien breaks off his friendship with Chloé, she decides to throw a party, expecting Adrien will fall all over himself to restore their friendship just because she was "nice". She becomes shocked when Adrien bluntly states he won't even consider the idea.

My Hero Academia

• In Cain, Aldera is forced to host a Quirkless Discrimination Awareness assembly. Rather than recognizing how badly they've been doing their jobs, Izuku's homeroom teacher haughtily declares that the assembly should teach Izuku to be grateful that the neglect and bullying he's suffered at Aldera isn't as bad as the worst-case examples said assembly demonstrated.

My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic

• The Flash Sentry Chronicles: After saving Double Take from a life on the streets, Wolf expects Double Take to join the Crimson Masquerade Gang and offer him his complete Undying Loyalty for the rest of his days.
• The Nuptialverse:
  • Even after Speedy Delivery is arrested for his abuse of Scootaloo, he continues to insist that he's a fantastic father, simply because he provided her with food, clothing, and shelter. As far as he's concerned, kids apparently don't need anything like "love" and "compassion". While Calling the Old Man Out, Scootaloo points out that not only have her adoptive parents and practically everyone else in Ponyville done more for her than he ever has simply through their kindness, even a random prison guard outperforms him when they intervene and stop Speedy from attempting to strike his daughter.
  • When Princess Luna confronts him in his cell, Olive Branch brings up the fact that he tried to report Speedy's abuse, hoping this will earn him a bit of extra leeway.
• Oversaturated World: Well Met, Fellow Traveler:
  "Hmm." Winter glanced away. "This is not relevant. I explained the actions of the pink one. I did not need to."
  "No. And I do not need to award you for common decency." Ditzy clicked her hands together. "You have much to learn."
• RainbowDoubleDash's Lunaverse:
  • During Carrot Top Season, several farmers are dealing with bad harvests. Applejack believes that offering to sell them apples — not giving, selling — is an incredibly generous act — so generous, in fact, that she expects them to offer her favors in return for the act of selling them food. She even defends herself by proclaiming she could have just turned a blind eye to their suffering and let them all starve, without realizing how callous this makes her sound. In case that wasn't bad enough, she tells Berry Punch that she would've gone out of business if not for the Apple Clan's cider, implying that she wants Berry to stop supporting Carrot Top or else. This all leads to practically all the businesses in Ponyville boycotting Sweet Apple Acres and its products.
  • Corona is shocked that Ditzy is upset by how she took her daughter Dinky hostage, protesting that she kept her word and didn't harm any of the hostages.
• The Weedverse: In A Knight To Remember, Princess Luna told Nuance that he should fix his own problems rather than expecting her to handle them for him. He complains later that she didn't commend him for listening to her, spending a couple paragraphs going on and on about how she should have acknowledged and praised him for doing so.

One Piece

• Tomorrow's Romance Dawn: During a discussion about Vaughan, Robin notes that he's never killed anyone in his career as a bounty hunter or a marine. Sanji sardonically responds that he should get the "Not as Big a Jerk as You Could Be" award.

The Rising of the Shield Hero

• Ambition of the Red Princess: When Gaston berates Farkas for being an Ungrateful Bastard, Farkas claims that he's already paid off his debt to Naofumi simply by choosing to fight despite his crippled condition. Gaston retorts that there are other members of their party who are also scarred and disfigured, yet still pull their weight without acting like utter Jerkasses, and that Farkas' "contributions" mostly consist of recklessly charging into battle and forcing others to dive in to save him.

Rosario + Vampire

• The original Falla in Rosario Vampire: Brightest Darkness Act IV. In chapter 11, after bisecting Luna, Falla tells Kurumu that she should be grateful to her for doing so since she's ensured that Luna won't ever hound Rason again, and outright accuses her of being an Ungrateful Bitch when she doesn't do so. Even before that, in chapter 6, Falla points out to everyone in Ms. Nekonome's class that had she not intervened in the timeline, everyone would have died; aside from the fact that no one but Tsukune's group has any idea what she's talking about, the only reason Falla helped to avert Luna's Suicidal Cosmic Temper Tantrum at the end of Act III was to serve her own interests, as Luna was the only one who could free her from her prison.

She-Ra and the Princesses of Power

• In Catra and Glimmer - Queens of the Horde, Shadow Weaver believes that Catra should be grateful that Shadow Weaver simply let her exist in the Horde.

Silent Hill

• Coming Home: Despite all of the horrible things he puts him through, Pyramid Head proclaims that James should be grateful that he hasn't attempted to rape him, as if he did so, James would be dead.

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

• Same Difference: After learning that Raphael and Michelangelo have been mutated, Shredder decides to help Find the Cure! out of the belief that doing so will make Tang Shen so grateful for his help that she'll join his side. He doesn't exactly help his case by trying to lock the boys up, either.

Tolkien's Legendarium

• In A Boy, a Girl and a Dog: The Leithian Script, Beren demands expressions of gratitude from the Valar for fighting Morgoth relentlessly and never joining him despite losing everything. Namo counters that refraining from betraying your freely sworn duty by joining the God of Evil isn't exactly praiseworthy, and Beren grudgingly concedes the point (he still complains, though, that his tribe got nothing for all their pains except a "that was what you should have been doing, fighting the Enemy, there isn't any other legitimate option"):
  Namo: Correct me if I have misunderstood the information that's been given me, but was not your family tasked to guard the southern border of Melkor's territory and prevent his followers from committing crimes in that area? Was that not the price of those lands which your people were given?
  (after a moment Beren nods, conceding the point)
  Namo: And was not the particular mandate of the House of Beor to guard your tribe against predation? You were their lords, were you not?
  (resigned, Beren nods again)
  (...)
  Beren: But I didn't have to. I could have gone off someplace safer. Or I could have made peace with the Lord of Fetters, and ruled as his vassal instead.
  Namo: If it is one's duty to protect the innocent — a specific duty, beyond that common to all Good folk — and it both given and accepted, then what is due to such a one who neglects that duty? Blame, or indifference?
  Beren: (quietly) Blame.
  Namo: Do you really think that refraining from blameworthy actions is enough to warrant praise?
  (pause)
  Beren: No, Sir.

The Tudors

• Handmaid: One of the reasons why Jane thinks she would be a better handmaid than Anne is that she would love Mary as her own and would try to be kind to Cecily (Anne's daughter). As Katherine coldly points out, there's nothing noble about having to try to be kind to a toddler who has done nothing wrong to you.

Welcome to Demon School! Iruma-kun

• In An Apple For The Teacher, Iruma's Abusive Parents claim that the fact they provided anything for their son to eat automatically makes them "good parents", insisting that anyone else would have simply starved the boy.

• Wish (2023): In the Villain Song "This Is The Thanks I Get?!", King Magnifico feels that he deserves a little more appreciation from his subjects for all of the great things that he does... like granting fourteen wishes (out of potentially hundreds) in one year or volunteering someone else to help out a person in need.

• In La Cintura Di Castita, a hermit enlightens Boccadoro that though Delioso has been trying to abduct and even rape her, he didn't kill her though he could. And why? Because he loves you, my child!
• In Dil Dhadakne Do, in conversation with the Mehras and Sunny, Manav talks about how his family is very progressive, so much so that he even "lets" his wife Ayesha work, even though they are wealthy enough for her to not have to. Sunny calls him out on this immediately.
• In Guardians of the Galaxy (2014), Yondu constantly reminds Peter Quill that were it not for him, his crew would have eaten him when he was a child. It's implied he's been bringing it up for the past twenty-six years. He mentions in an offhand comment in the sequel that he'd thought Quill knew he was kidding.
  Quill: Twenty years, you've been throwing that in my face, like it's some great thing, not eating me! Normal people don't even think about eating someone else! Much less that person having to be grateful for it!
• Guess Who's Coming to Dinner: John's father believes that working hard to raise him gives him the right to butt in on his marriage. John furiously tells him off for this.
  John: Let me tell you something. I owe you nothing! If you carried that bag a million miles, you did what you're supposed to do! Because you brought me into this world. And from that day you owed me everything you could ever do for me like I will owe my son if I ever have another.
• In In the Loop, Toby — an aide of British cabinet minister Simon — is in Washington, D.C. for a meeting with a senior American government official. The night before, he goes out clubbing with an old university friend, hooks up with her, and oversleeps, resulting in him missing the first half of the meeting. After Simon "reads him some extracts from the Riot Act" in response, Toby protests on the grounds that "it's not like I threw up in there, is it?" Unfortunately for him, Simon's not impressed with this line of defence:
  Simon: No. You're right. I'm being unfair. I should be thanking you for not throwing up. Well done. You're a star. And you didn't wet yourself, did you? You're in the right city. You didn't say anything overtly racist. You didn't pull your dick out and start plucking it shouting "Willy Banjo!" No, I'm being really unfair! You got so much right... without actually being there for the beginning of one of the most important moments of my career. Thanks. You're a legend.
• In The Long Kiss Goodnight, Perkins lets Samantha's daughter Caitlin keep her doll during what he intends to be her and Samantha's last moments. "I'm not a complete ogre".
• In Machete, Machete takes an unconscious Sartana home and lays her in bed. The next morning, she realises all her clothes are still on and he earns her respect. What a gentleman.
• In Maleficent it is implied that Stefan expects gratitude for not killing the title character, but merely cutting off her wings.
• In Quiz Show, the Congress applauses Charles Van Doren for breaking his silence and testifying. Rep. Derounian, however, does not share their sentiment:
  Rep. Derounian: I'm happy you made that statement. But I cannot agree with most of my colleagues. You see, I don't think a man of your intelligence should be commended for simply, at long last, telling the truth.
• Zig-zagged in Scent of a Woman, during the climactic hearing. The dean intends to punish Charlie for not naming names, yet also intends to reward George for testimony that is only slightly less vague than Charlie's. After Frank's Rousing Speech, the school disciplinary committee, in addition to excusing Charlie from any further involvement in the case^note not to mention, deciding they can take action against the vandals after all declare that George's should not receive recognition or reward for his testimony.
• In Se7en, John Doe at one point tells Mills that the latter should be grateful that the former — a Serial Killer who arranges "poetic" deaths for sinful people — has only knocked him out during their chase instead of killing him outright.

• Beast Tamer. The hero party needs Rein's help to get the Shield of Truth from Lost Forest, but they had earlier fired him cruelly, leaving him with few viable options. How do they try to recruit him to undertake the quest? They walk up to him, give him a Back Handed Apology, and then cry out "but we apologized didn't we?" when he refuses. Their apology consisted of "firing Rein because he was weak and useless".
• One Dave Barry column has this insight into the male mindset: being little more than toilet-trained cavemen, they will occasionally perform an act of great heroism like doing the laundry without being asked or making spaghetti without setting the house on fire, only to be confused when other people (read: women) don't consider this an accomplishment worthy of a Nobel Prize.
• The Dark Profit Saga: Inverted. When Poldo meets the family of a servant who used to work for his company, he is embarrassed at the praise they heap on him for doing things like saying hello and occasionally giving a polite nod. He is horrified when he realizes that this is because everyone else at the company was absolutely horrible, to the point that it was common practice for people to kick the servant whenever they were having a bad day.
  It was disturbing that he was remembered for only the slightest of courtesies, and all the more so that those slight courtesies still exceeded the average.
• Vern the dragon from Karina Fabian's Dragon Eye PI series thinks he's learned more patience and long-suffering than a dragon was ever meant to know now that he resists incinerating or eating anyone who happens to annoy him.
• In The Expanse novel Persepolis Rising, Santiago Singh is handed a job as the governor of an important Space Station as a part of the Laconian expedition to forcibly annex every human settlement to their dictatorship... and is utterly baffled (and scared of course) about angry locals' assassination attempt on him. How can they be so ungrateful that Laconians took over the station without killing anyone inside?! Never mind that the Laconian forces have already demonstrated their unmatched firepower on a few ships that justifiably opened fire on Laconia's ships as they entered the Slow Zone willy-nilly and refused to respond; never mind that this demonstration has unintentionally fried several other ships waiting in queue to enter the Slow Zone, and that Singh has happily reported to his superiors how this can be used to intentionally crush revolts; and especially never mind that the Martian revanchists who founded the Laconian dictatorship have already killed billions of people by conspiring with another terrorist group to bombard Earth with asteroids... as a diversion.
• In Fire and Hemlock, the protagonist's mother acts like she's a saintly martyr for watching the school's nativity play (in which her daughter plays a part) because it's boring — of course, in comparison to the father she is the better parent.
• Harry Potter:
  • Played for Laughs in The Order of the Phoenix when Fred and George joke that they should automatically get E for Exceeds Expectations (the second-highest O.W.L. grade) because they exceed expectations every time they actually show up for an exam.
  • At the beginning of The Deathly Hallows, Dudley shows outward concern for Harry for the first time in seven years, two years after Harry saved his soul from a Dementor attack, because of Harry having to stop Voldemort. Dudley thanks Harry for saving him and the cousins manage to patch things up. While he and Harry are perfectly content with getting on with things, Petunia goes nuts, raving about what a grateful boy her Dudley is. Goes a bit deeper: turns out that when Dudley was exposed to the Dementor, he saw his entire life from an objective standpoint and saw the type of really cruddy person he really was. He definitely is nicer to Harry starting from Book 6, but presumably, trying to make up for the past 16 years of mistreatment is difficult and he doesn't know how. Book 7 finally allows circumstances for Dudley to voice it, which is why Harry is able to grasp the depth of the apology.
  • Vernon Dursley thinks that Harry should be more grateful to him and his wife for taking him in, feeding and clothing him, and giving him a place to live. Never mind that they abused him relentlessly, fed him the bare minimum when not punishing him by taking away his meals, only gave him their son's raggedy and ill-fitting hand-me-downs to wear, treated him like a servant, made him live in a cupboard under the stairs, and let his cousin and Vernon's sister bully him.
• The Heartstrikers: Inverted. Julius is the first nice dragon anyone has ever heard of and has lived his entire life being told that Virtue Is Weakness and being threatened by his much more powerful family members. He is therefore pathetically grateful for even the simplest of kindnesses. In the first book, he is on Cloud 9 after getting a simple thank you — it's apparently the first time someone has ever thanked him, at least in person. In the third book, as Julius is trying to reformat his clan into a democracy, all his siblings are trying to kill him and blaming him for making the clan confused and weak at a critical moment. When Julius mentions to a general from the UN that the clan is too much of a mess right now to help her, she is very impressed to hear his plans to turn his clan into a democracy and tells him to take all the time he needs. Julius nearly hugs her on the spot.
• In Hush, Hush, Patch wants Nora to love and trust him... because he didn't kill her. And not that he was planning on killing her because he was lied to or brainwashed or anything. He wanted to kill her because it would make him human and thus let him feel things.
• Incarnations of Immortality: In And Eternity by Piers Anthony, two female characters are temporarily transformed into males and learn that All Men Are Perverts, gaining a newfound appreciation for the amount of restraint the average man shows in not raping them. Yeesh...
• In the Mark Twain satire King Leopold's Soliloquy, Twain's fictionalized Leopold II doesn't dispute that he's done some harsh things in his management of the Belgian Congo, but he tries to bring up all the nice things he's done for the inhabitants. Unfortunately, those "nice things" are laughably minor—for instance, he brags about how he paid his workers the equivalent of roughly a penny a week, which is supposedly a sign of his good character because he could have just not paid them at all and robbed them of their labor at gunpoint.
• In The Picture of Dorian Gray, Dorian realizes that his painting is reflecting all the hedonism he's committed and thinks that not picking up this country girl he comes across will improve it. The painting promptly develops a smug grin of hypocrisy.
• In Relativity, Ravenswood wants some respect for climbing his way out of alcoholism. His father points out that most people manage to go through their whole lives without ever becoming alcoholics in the first place.
• Return of the Runebound Professor: Moxie refuses to be impressed that Vermil actually repaid her small payday loan (even though she wasn't necessarily expecting him to be that honourable).
  Moxie: Do you want a written letter of congratulations for doing the bare minimum?
• The Supervillainy Saga: Inverted.
  Cindy: Gary is the best boss I've ever worked for.
  Gary: Surely, you exaggerate.
  Cindy: Gary, do you want sexual favors?
  Garry: [offended] No.
  Cindy: See? BEST BOSS EVER.
  Gary: I am actually kind of horrified. And worried.
• In The Twilight Saga, the main characters are a family of vampires, the Cullens, who don't kill humans for blood (instead surviving off wild animals). The Cullens and narrator Bella think of themselves as saintly people with a caring regard for humans, but in spite of this, none of them seem to care what happens to humans as long as the bad things aren't their fault. In addition to the abusive relationship stuff the books are notorious for, the Cullens are friends with plenty of other vampires who still see humans as livestock, most are smug about their superiority over humankind, and when they know violent vampires are on a killing spree nearby, they ignore it until it's confirmed they and/or someone they have a personal interest in are at risk. At one point, Rosalie and Emmett do nothing to stop another vampire from killing and drinking from a man right in front of them, and in the movie smile. Granted, The Masquerade exists, and attempting to violate it results in the Volturi (the ruling family of vampirekind) brutally killing you to uphold it, but the Cullens never seem the least bit uncomfortable about the various crimes they commit in pursuit of their goals, or the atrocious loss of life caused by other vampires (including quite a few the Cullens consider their best friends) despite them being, in the narrator's own words (from the beginning of the third book), "committed to protecting human life." In the last book, all the other characters point out what a great guy Jacob is because his infatuation with Bella's newborn daughter isn't sexual in nature yet.
• Amy Dallon from Ward would like to make it known that she's not bad and/or crazy. So what if she raped and temporarily brainwashed her own adoptive sister? She could have permanently mind-raped her whole family, but she didn't. Ergo, she's a good person.
  Amy: "The point is, I could, very easily, but I haven't. You know how bad I was at my lowest point. You should have a sense of how I've been doing since. But I didn't. I fantasize about it, because of course I do, when I'd rather have Victoria back in her inhuman shape than not have her in my life at all. I love her. More than Carol. More than Mark. More than Crystal. And I know she doesn't have anyone else. But I don't do anything. That's what's important."

• Kollektivet's song "Compliments" is just two minutes of Mit Heinrich wondering why he doesn't get compliments for being a decent human being.
  "Taking out the trash. No compliments.
  Respecting trafficking rules. No compliments.
  Got to work on time. No compliments.
  And I dressed myself today. No freaking compliments!"
• The holiday song "Santa Baby" has the singer asking Santa for a ludicrous amount of incredibly expensive gifts (a car, a yacht, a platinum mine...) because she hadn't taken every available opportunity to be naughty that year.
• "Charlie's Inferno" by That Handsome Devil follows the story of a man named Charlie who lives a seemingly virtuous life of decent gestures (being environmentally conscious, sending small gifts to his wife, waking to do the Pledge of Allegiance every morning, etc.), but with the very specific intent on being deemed "virtuous" so when he dies, he gets an easy trip to Heaven, something that he can lord over his friends and family, even as they mourn his death. He's naturally confused when he's just-as-naturally rejected from Heaven and dumped into Hell instead. He proceeds to spend his eternity questioning why he's not being rewarded for his good deeds, never once questioning why said deeds are "good", and that lack of self-awareness is what damns him as being more of a sinner than he could ever realize.

• The Bible:
  • Luke 17:7-10 asks if a master would, after seeing a servant finish his work in a field, invite him to eat with him. The answer is no—the servant would be expected to prepare and serve the master's meal before he could eat himself, and would not receive thanks for doing his duty. It then concludes with the attitude a good Christian should have toward their work.
  "We are unworthy servants, for all we did was our duty."
  • The verse "And all our virtues [are] like a filthy rag": Compared with the perfect standard of God, the best behavior people can offer falls woefully short. Hence why the whole standard for Biblical morality could be summed up by Jesus as (paraphrased) "Love God with everything that is in you, and love your neighbor no less than you love yourself" — if humans could manage to care about the welfare and freedoms of others that much, they wouldn't mistreat others or act selfishly, and there would be no need for salvation.
• The Talmud in the Pirkei Avot section of tractate Nezikin has many of the noted rabbis advising that one shouldn't seek honor simply for doing good deeds.

• In a well-known Fences monologue, Troy outright declares that he doesn't like Cory, and furthermore that he doesn't have to like him; he takes care of Cory because that is his job as a father, and in Troy's world, emotion is not part of the deal. However, it's also clear that Troy fully expects Cory to treat him with the utmost respect (even demanding to be called "Sir") and be unquestionably grateful to him for doing the bare minimum of providing food and shelter. In other words, Troy doesn't have to like Cory, but Cory has to like him.
• In the Wicked song "No Good Deed", Elphaba wonders aloud if she was genuinely trying to do good or if she just wanted attention for it.

• Dungeons & Dragons 3rd Edition: Discussed in the Book of Exalted Deeds. One of the introductory passages talks about what it is like to be truly "good", noting that one who cites all the evil things they have not done is at best neutral rather than an active force of good.

• Bug Fables: Any time Team Snakemouth does anything good, no matter how remotely mundane (like cutting down a bush or delivering a book into the library), Vi almost always asks for a reward more often than not. Kabbu frequently calls her out on it, and at several points he even shuts her up before she can finish her demand for a reward.
• In Cinderella Phenomenon, Lucette starts off with such a severe case of Lack of Empathy that other people have to explain to her that doing her chores doesn't count as one of the three good deeds she needs to do to break her curse because it's just her doing what she's supposed to do.
• Dragon Age:
  • The Chantry's attitude toward elves. A few centuries ago frictions between elves and humans eventually broke out into open war, which ended with the humans conquering and destroying the elven homeland. Again. As the Chantry often boasts, they could have slaughtered every elf down to the last man, woman, and child, but instead showed "mercy" by allowing the elves to live in fantastic ghettos as second-class citizens, as long as the elves capitulated to human religion and law. Most modern Chantry priests and scholars can't understand why those uppity elves would be so ungrateful after all the mercy humans showed them.
  • The Templar Order's primary function is to kidnap mage children and take them to live in mage towers as heavily guarded prisoners for the rest of their lives, where horrific abuses are frequently inflicted. But hey, at least they don't slaughter mage children in the crib (usually), or cut out their tongues and use magic rods to render them People Puppets like those Qunari. In the aftermath of the Annulment of the Gallows, the Templars' complete inability to consider the idea that the mages might actually have a legitimate reason to be upset is what caused the situation to degenerate into open war.
  • Dragon Age II has the head of the qunari in Kirkwall, the arishok, declare that the city should be 'grateful' he does not 'fix their chaotic mess' of a city by killing lots of people and converting them to the Qun. The Qun suffers from Blue-and-Orange Morality, but most people don't expect a prize for refraining from mass slaughter. He eventually gets fed up with the Activist-Fundamentalist Antics of Sister Patrice and goes through with it. Dragon Age: Inquisition reveals that the Qunari disavowed the Arishok's actions, saying that it was unsanctioned, and thus avoid open war.
• The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim: The Blades will eventually demand that the Dragonborn kill Paarthurnax, former lieutenant of Alduin and cause of many atrocities, or else they will refuse to help you any further. Paarthurnax asks for his life and cites his long history of peace and meditation. He asks the player, "Which is better, to be born good, or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?" As a dragon, he struggles constantly with his inherent tyranny and has done so for thousands of years to keep himself from relapsing into the destructive fire-breathing monster that his species is hard-wired to become, and as a result one might very well be forced to concede that yes, he does indeed deserve not to be executed simply for not hurting anyone.
  • Note that Paarthurnax freely acknowledges that the Blades' fear of him is perfectly logical, is quite understanding should you choose to kill him, and never really claims to be "good" simply because he refrains from evil, just that he doesn't deserve to die because he has the potential to become evil. Consequently, many players turn against the Blades for their insistence that he be killed for the crime of "being a dragon," especially since the arguments they use to support their case are essentially "killing dragons is what we do." For the record, if you do decide to kill Paarthurnax, he won't retaliate against you, implying he's genuinely repentant about his past.
  • Paarthurnax is also notable for being one of the most polite and helpful people the Dragonborn encounters. Even when the Greybeards disagree with the Dragonborn's methods, Paarthurnax continues to offer all the information he has. Paarthurnax was also one of the closest to his older brother Alduin, but still chose to turn against him, and even aids in the Dragonborn's first battle with Alduin.
• In Fire Emblem: The Blazing Blade, during Serra's B Support with Oswin, she — a cleric in the service of the heroes — assumes that he's here to praise her for healing the wounded, but he bluntly tells her that she's doing no more than is expected of her since it's her duty to heal the wounded.
• King Dedede in Kirby's Adventure. Sure, he did have good intentions at heart breaking the Star Rod to keep Nightmare (who had holed himself up in the Fountain of Dreams) at bay, but did he really have to treat the fountain as his own private swimming pool?
• In The Legend of Zelda: Spirit Tracks, this turns out to have been the crux behind Byrne's Face–Heel Turn. He agreed to become Anjean's apprentice and serve the Spirits of Good in the hopes of becoming all powerful, and when that failed to happen and he felt insufficiently rewarded for performing his duties, he joined the forces of Malladus.
• In A Little Lily Princess, after one of Miss Minchin's students, the protagonist, Sara Crewe, falls on hard times due to her father dying in debt, Miss Minchin confiscates almost all the girl's possessions, makes her work as a servant while using her wages to pay back her father's debts, makes her sleep in he attic, gives her barely enough to eat, uses corporal punishment on her and other indignities. After it turns out that Sara's father didn't lose his fortune but was extremely wealthy, Miss Minchin claims that it was only thanks to her that the girl didn't starve on the street, but no one believes she has the girl's best interests in mind.
• Mass Effect:
  • In Mass Effect, after rescuing Shepard and team from a volcanic eruption, Joker makes a comment about expecting a medal for the timely save. Renegade Shepard responds thusly:
  Shepard: Saving my boots from burning lava is part of your job, Joker. We don't give medals to soldiers for doing their jobs.
  • In Mass Effect: Andromeda, Annea, an angara hoarding water on Elaaden, will retort when confronted with this fact that she allowed the krogan, who left the Initiative in anger at their shabby treatment, to establish a colony. Ryder retorts that it shouldn't be her choice as to who gets to live there.
• In Persona 4, during the Temperance Social Link, Eri Minami — the young woman in question — once complains that her stepson is being cold to her even though she got up from watching daytime TV to pick him up from daycare. This event proves that their distant relationship is at least partially Eri's fault since she doesn't make much of an effort to connect with him.
• In Persona 5, the Phantom Thieves' second major target, Ichiryusai Madarame, believes that since he provides his pupils with a shack to live in, he's entitled to plagiarize their work and pass it off as his own, and anyone who pushes back against this mistreatment is promptly punished for their "ingratitude" by being blacklisted from the art world.

• Homestar Runner character Strong Bad argues that he does plenty to help the environment and that he deserves credit for his "most significant contributions": not dropping pianos on Marzipan's head, and refraining from watering her garden with bleach as he apparently once did (preferring now to dump used cigarette butts on them instead.)
• JP of Terrible Writing Advice once wrote an Anti-Sue in the belief that everyone would buy his book if he told them it didn’t have a Mary Sue in it.

• Girl Genius:
  • Inverted. Agatha, heir to the Heterodyne family, does not expect adoration simply for not slaughtering people on a whim... but her followers are very impressed by the fact that she goes two minutes without killing someone. The reason is that the Heterodyne family was the bloodline of mad scientists even other mad scientist lines feared. They were literally built from a legacy of conquest and woe. The only people besides Agatha who averted this were her father and uncle, Bill and Barry Heterodyne, who were adventuring heroes looking to make the world a better place. Note that Agatha's followers were specifically impressed because by not killing anyone within two minutes of taking the throne of Mechanicsburg, she had broken the family record. That included her father and her uncle.
    Agatha: ...and here I was worried that I wouldn't be any good at this.
    Vanamonde: Heh. You have fifty generations of lowered expectations working for you.
    Town Elder #1: Two minutes, and she hasn't killed anyone!
    Town Elder #2: A new record!
  • On a related note, Agatha's paternal grandmother Theodora did receive a prize for basic decency: she was canonized a Saint for raising her two sons to be decent human beings. Normally this would be expected of a mother, but the fact that she managed to do this to the sons of a Heterodyne was seen as a miraculous feat.
  • In England, Agatha is made to wait for a while before seeing Albia as a show of power. Agatha grumbles a little, but nothing worse. The attendants assure her that the lack of a murderous rampage has been noted.
• Homestuck: Cronus believes that the other characters should be totally impressed that he doesn't nearly lord his highblood status above them all as much as he could.
• Political comic I Drew This makes a reference to this phenomenon; "There's a reason you never hear people say 'Boy, Bob is a wonderful human being! Today he was really mad about something, but he didn't beat anyone to death with a hammer!'"
• Katamari has Ace, whose desire for personal recognition makes him a completely self-absorbed Jerkass. Upon learning that his Snowlem cousin Sherman has mostly melted and needs help building up a body, Ace refuses to help until the other brings up a potential reward.
• Manly Guys Doing Manly Things: Inverted. When the Commander's sister confirms to Jonesy (the Commander's not-quite-girlfriend) that they're all genetically engineered clones, Jonesy asks "So you're... not real people?" While Jonesy gets called out, she at least has the benefit of the doubt from the Commander claiming to be "made of steak and American soil." Later, the Commander tells her that everyone was very impressed that she only said it once.
• In the The Order of the Stick prequel On the Origin of PCs, Belkar gets thrown in prison for going on a murder spree during a tavern brawl and argues that not killing all the barmaids was a considerable act of restraint on his part that should be praised. He then suggests that if humans don't want him to murder people, they should put up a sign saying "Thank you for not killing more than five of us."
  Prison Guard: We don't want you to kill ANY of us!
  Belkar: Now you're just being unreasonable!
• In Slack Wyrm, the eponymous dragon has more than once said people should praise him for not killing them. When confronted that he's actually not that nice (he's causally killed several people) just extremely lazy, he counters that being a dragon and thus capable of killing effortlessly on a mass scale he should be lauded for not having the motivation for doing so.
  Sir Corpse So what, you're like chill Hitler?
• There's a Surviving The World strip with an... interesting take on this:
  If you are not the cat person, and you are left alone for a weekend with the cats, and you do not eat the cats, you should get some credit for your achievement. Strangely, most people don't see it that way.
• The Non-Adventures of Wonderella has an example, sort of. We don't learn if Wonderella wants an award, only that she gets one. And a party. For saying that if she was alive in the segregation era, she would have opposed it.
• There is a Zogonia strip that goes something like:
  Kev: I can't believe you don't trust me! All those times when I was on guard duty, I could have slit your throat while you slept and taken all the treasure, but I didn't! And this is the thanks I get?
  Domato: I was never really asleep.
  Kev: Yeah, I know.

• 4chan's Tendies Stories has "Good Boy Points," awarded for such things as making boom-boom in the potty instead of on the floor, or cleaning one's room, which can be exchanged for a reward (usually chicken tenders, affectionately referred to as "tendies") once enough are collected. Of course, this is largely to illustrate that mommy is a failure of a parent since she missed the critical second step of punishing bad behaviour (beyond taking away a handful of GBP).
• Cracked: In "6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person" David Wong says it's not enough to simply be nice to others. If you want a job, you'll have to prove you have the skills prospective employers need. If you want to get into a relationship, you'll have to appeal to your significant other rather than simply being "nice" to them.
• Love advice blogger Harris O'Malley, a.k.a. Dr. Nerdlove, has The Grimes Test, speaking about a fictional kaiju who has never creeped on, harassed or stalked a woman, ending with an Armor-Piercing Question of "So what do you have going for you that Grimes doesn't?" The eponymous doctor has several articles on the subject, generally chastising so-called "Nice Guys" who act friendly towards a woman in order to sleep with them, calling the tactic inherently dishonest and underhanded. O'Malley argues that being "nice" isn't enough to win someone's affection; one must have charisma, charm, and an interesting lifestyle to truly be desirable.
• The Onion has "Chauvin Defense Team Praises Officer’s Restraint In Not Killing Bystanders" and "Pro Athlete Lauded For Being Decent Human Being"
• One of Fred Clark/the Slacktivist's most widely circulated blog posts criticizes the attitude he refers derisively to as the Anti-Kitten-Burning Coalition — people who want to consider themselves morally above-average just for opposing Obviously Evil things like setting kittens on fire. Clark talks about how the article's comments had unambiguously anti-kitten-burning sentiments but noted that they seemed to take an almost aggressively defensive stance. He also calls it the Thornton Melon morality, named for Rodney Dangerfield's character in the film Back to School (1986), who had a line of fat clothing stores with the motto "If you want to look thin, hang out with fat people". In essence, Clark boils down these stories of kitten-burning being so popular because they let people assure themselves that they're better than some arbitrary moral floor of depravity, all without having to do anything or change their behavior.
  Fred Clark: The lowest common denominator of minimal morality was being held up as though it were a prophetic example of speaking truth to power.

• the1janitor, talks about how a lot of guys claiming to be in the "Friend Zone" are really entitled Extreme Doormats that really aren't as nice as they claim to be.
  "Look, dude, the world doesn't owe you shit for being nice, and girls don't either. You're supposed to be nice to people. You don't get a cookie for doing what people are supposed to be doing anyway."
• In Caddicarus' video on Zoo Race, Caddy notes that most of the awards on the awards page of the developer's website are for producing virus-free software:
  Caddy: Guys, newsflash, just because your game has no viruses in it, doesn't mean it deserves merit. That's like getting a medal every time you wash your hands after taking a shit.
• In his Oppression Obsession video, Jonathan Pie criticises the ideology "anti-fascism" as it is not especially impressive to be against an ideology so obviously disgusting and immoral.
  Pie: I see people who define themselves as "anti-fascist" on their Twitter profile. Who isn't? I'm sorry, but that's the default setting. It's not impressive to be anti-fascist. Can you imagine showing off "I am not a fascist!" Good! What do you want a fucking medal? Not endorsing fascism is about as common as not endorsing fingering children. Can we just work on the assumption that most people, even people we don't like, aren't fascist?
• "Male Feminist in the 1950s" is about a man bragging about refraining from hitting his wife or saying how much his daughter being fat bothers him, and having such enlightened beliefs as that a woman with moxie can become a medical doctor and that women can make good points sometimes.
• The Nostalgia Critic:
  • In the review of The Shining, the Critic wants a medal for not making pedophile jokes. This is an episode heavily based on how fucked up he is, though, so at least it is intentionally douchey.
  • He also points out in his review for I'll Be Home for Christmas that Jake Wilkinson basically has to be bribed to visit his family for Christmas, and only does two good things, and one standard thing he should have been doing.
• What the Fuck Is Wrong with You?: Nash and Tara begin to think that they need to start giving out prizes for basic decency after hearing a story about a man drugging his girlfriend to play video games.

• Avatar: The Last Airbender, Zuko's Heel–Face Turn is discussed in this manner twice:
  • When Uncle Iroh goes to The Gaang to ask for their help to rescue Zuko, said group is naturally not very enthused. Iroh insists that there is good in Zuko, and...
    Sokka: Good inside of him isn't enough. Why don't you come back when it's outside him too, okay?
  • When the group is talking about Zuko's sudden (from their perspective) jump to the good guy's side and Toph cites setting Appa free instead of leaving him to rot as one good thing he's done:
    Sokka: [sarcastically] Oh, hurray! After a lifetime of evil, at least he didn't add animal cruelty to the list!
    Toph: I'm just saying that considering his messed-up family and how he was raised, he could have turned out a lot worse.
    Katara: You're right, Toph. Let's go find him and give him a medal. The "Not-as-Much-of-a-Jerk-as-You-Could-Have-Been Award"!
• In The Dragon Prince, Rayla — a former assassin — claims that Callum should trust her because in the whole time she's travelled with them, she hasn't tried to assassinate them.
• The Futurama episode "Time Keeps on Slipping", Fry initially attempts to woo Leela with the least amount of effort possible (to be fair to Fry, this is more because he doesn't always get how to react to things rather than him being a bad person).
  Fry: I bought her champagne, I opened it... What does a guy have to do?
• Kaeloo: Stumpy asks Quack Quack, who has infinite lives and can therefore come back to life if he is killed, if he can have one of his lives. What will Stumpy give him in return? Not calling him rude names for no reason.
• The Lion Guard: The third season premiere reveals Scar's Start of Darkness; a rogue lion ambushed him with a cobra, which bit him and gave him his namesake scar. Scar expected to receive praise "near and far" for killing them, only to be furious when Mufasa just playfully ruffled his mane and nicknamed him "Scar". This is despite the fact that as leader of the Lion Guard, protecting the Pride Lands from such threats was part of Scar's job in the first place.
• In Milo Murphy's Law, Bradley accuses Milo of this, though largely because he insists that Milo has more control over Murphy's Law than he actually does.
  Bradley: So he causes problems just to fix them, and be praised for his "heroism." It's like getting an award for cleaning up your room. After you messed it up!
• My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic:
  • Even after notionally "reforming", Discord claims to be just as good a friend of the Mane Six as they are to each other in spite of all the trouble he's caused (and keeps causing) and then complaining when they don't immediately return the sentiment. Being the Trickster, how much of this is him actually meaning it and how much is him just messing with them for amusement isn't clear.
  • Another factor is that it may be that since he is the Spirit of Disharmony, what counts as decent behavior may come as foreign or even antithetical to him (especially since his Physical God status means he's spent most of his life seeing ponykind and others as merely playthings). One examination where this is Played With is in the Season 4 finale; the Big Bad Tirek convinces Discord to perform a Face–Heel Turn by acting friendly and amicable to Discord while giving him the chance for to do what he wants. Discord falls for it because Fluttershy is the only one who is really friends with him and tries to understand his needs while the others barely tolerate him and even then, Fluttershy reins him in. He is unsurprisingly backstabbed and this betrayal did teach him some more humility to have a better understanding of friendship. He has been getting better though and for the most part, seems more like a somewhat spoiled child than anyone truly amoral.
  • In the episode "Discordant Harmony", Discord hosts a tea party for Fluttershy and tries to make her feel at home by completely removing anything bizarre from his home and changing his behavior to being impeccably nice. This started because Discord became irritated at how the ponies he was doing business with questioned his friendship with Fluttershy (though it appeared it did get to him). However, by doing so, he begins to fade from existence with the implications that Discord would've died. Furthermore, it's implied he is connected to "Chaosville", a pocket dimension that seems to serve as a Fisher King purpose and where his power is connected to. As such, while Discord can be amicable and nice, being chaotic and causing trouble is a literal part of who he is.
• She-Ra and the Princesses of Power:
  • Shadow Weaver seems to think she deserves gratitude whenever she isn't actively abusing her adoptive children and genuinely believes when she joins the Rebellion that she's one of the good guys despite all that she's done.
  • Horde Prime believes the Etherians should worship him for not destroying the planet they call home. When he finally decides to decimate Etheria, he blames his actions on the inhabitants for not being grateful.
  • Subverted with Hordak. When he plans to send Catra to Beast Island, Entrapta intervenes and convinces him to send her to the Crimson Waste instead. Hordak then acts as though Catra should be grateful, however they both know the Crimson Waste is just as much of a death sentence so Hordak appears to only be doing it to rub the punishment in her face.
• The Simpsons:
  • In "Blood Feud", Homer helps save Mr. Burns's life by persuading Bart to donate much-needed blood, solely in the expectation that "when you save a rich guy's life, he showers you with riches!" He also says to Bart, "I'm not asking you to give blood for free. That would be crazy!" When all the family receives is a thank-you note addressed to Bart, Homer sends Mr. Burns an abusive letter in return, with near-disastrous consequences.
  • In "Team Homer", Moe grouses, "You go through life, you try be nice to people, you resist the urge to punch 'em in the face, and for what?"
  • In "In Marge We Trust", Reverend Lovejoy envisions the saints in the Springfield Church's stained glass windows asking him what he's done to help Springfield's parishioners.
    St. Lucian: Tell us, good Reverend, what great deeds have you done to inspire the hearts of men?
    Lovejoy: Well, I had the vestibule re-carpeted.
    (beat)
    St. Donickus: I've appeared in over eight thousand visions, and that's the lamest reply I've ever heard.
    Lovejoy: Oh, now please, I-I thought saints were supposed to be friendly.
    St. Donickus: You ... you're just lucky God isn't here.
• South Park:
  • Cartman is freaking out around Christmastime about whether or not he's been "nice" enough to merit Santa's favor. He suggests that brushing his teeth counts as a "nice" action, only for his "naughty and nice accountant" to note that that doesn't really count.
  • Also Cartman's attempts to be nice in order to get invited to Kyle's party at Casa Bonita.
    Kyle: That's not being nice. That's just putting on a nice sweater!
    Cartman: ...I don't understand the difference.
    Kyle: I know you don't. (shuts the door in his face)
• Steven Universe: The Movie: Though they've been trying their hardest to learn empathy from Steven, and he appreciates the effort, the Diamonds' attempts to be kinder people still fall short of normal standards — Yellow hasn't declared war or enslaved anyone, Blue doesn't order that her subjects be shattered or make anyone cry anymore, and White is attempting to be cordially polite, "even to lower lifeforms" — and they think doing all this is enough to warrant Steven living in the palace with them instead of returning to Earth.
• Tiny Toon Adventures: In the "Best O' Plucky Duck Day" segment "Sticky Fingers Duck", Plucky and Hamton steal a candy bar from the local store. They make a clean getaway but are overcome with guilt and rush back to the store to return it. As the clerk praises them for their honesty, Plucky assumes he'll reward them with the candy bar they had just stolen. Instead, he tells them that he'll call the police if they ever return.