Here's the problem I am attempting...
Let $R$ be a commutative ring with identity. Let $\mathcal P=\{\mathfrak p_1, \mathfrak p_2, \ldots, \mathfrak p_m\}$ and $\mathcal Q=\{\mathfrak q_1, \mathfrak q_2, \ldots, \mathfrak q_n\}$ be two family of prime ideals of $R$ such that $\bigcap\limits_{i=1}^m \mathfrak p_i=\bigcap\limits_{i=1}^n \mathfrak q_i$. Assume that there are no non-trivial inclusion relations in either family. Prove that the two families coincide.
Here's how I'm interpreting
"no non-trivial inclusion relations in either family": For each $\mathfrak p_i$, there is an $x_i\in\mathfrak p_i$ such that $x_i\notin \mathfrak p_j$ for all $j\neq i$. To put it simply, $\mathfrak p_i \not\subseteq \bigcup\limits_{j\neq i}\mathfrak p_j$. (Similar interpretation for the other family.)
"two families coincide": Either $\mathcal P\subseteq \mathcal Q$ or, $\mathcal Q\subset \mathcal P$.
Let me know if you think the terms used in the question are ambiguous. It's possibly some university exam question (someone asked this question on a Telegram channel).
I know the avoidance lemma for prime ideals. However, I don't think it's relevant here. Please give me hints at solving this or provide counter example if the statement is false considering the way I interpreted it. I can see that it's true in the ring of integers. For instance, any family (with no non-trivial inclusion relation) of prime ideals whose intersection is $6\mathbb Z$ must contain $2\mathbb Z$ and $3\mathbb Z$.